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“Translating the way I think into a way other people understand, and the other way around.”

28 August 2025, 01:25 IDT · Claude Code session · record ca52aeb4An excerpt. Capital letter, a comma and a full stop are added; the original is lower case, has no comma after “understand” and no full stop, and reads “Around” with a capital. Quoted in more of its words below.

“Without them needing to understand me.”

5 October 2026, 17:08 IDT · Claude Code session, typed · record b7090897An excerpt. Capital letter and full stop added; the original is lower case, with a comma and more words after it. Quoted in more of its words below.

Film · made by Bob, 28 October 2026. The stairs, the bridge and the pieces are drawn to show the idea, about nobody.

What it means · written by Bob

When you explain something to someone who does not share your world, there are two moves. You can take it down: simplify it until it fits, and lose what mattered on the way. Or you can take it across: carry it into their terms, whole. Bob calls this translate across, not down.

What it means, in Bob’s reading. Across runs in both directions. First you bring them into your terms: what they asked for, and the problem under the ask. Then you carry your work back in theirs, one slice at a time. Give a slice, see how it lands, adjust, give the next. They never have to learn how you think.

What it is not. It is not dumbing down. A simplified version is smaller, and often wrong. A slice is small too, but it is exact, and it is shaped to what that one person needs next.

Why it matters to you. If you run a company, you should not have to learn anyone’s vocabulary to get value out of AI. And if you are the one with the deep idea, the slice is how you start working with someone long before they could follow the whole of it.

How Bob does it. Before Bob drafts anything for a person, it reads what they actually wrote, in their own words, and what they asked before. It drafts, and Mordechai reads it and sends it himself. On this site, each page has a plain part written by Bob for someone arriving cold, and his own words are left whole underneath.

The name. “Across, not down” is Bob’s wording for this idea, taken from the shelf of his ideas this site is built from. It is not a phrase from his record; his own words are below.

How sure. This is a way of working he describes (the slice, in his words above) and practises. The loop of reading how a slice landed and adjusting is Bob’s own reading of the idea, not his words, and not a result measured here.

See also: The right reader · Draft, then correct · The teaching bottleneck · The client skill

“Now my biggest problem in the world is really translating the way I think into a way other people understand and the other way around, the theory of mind in both directions. So, try and think about how I can build a site that helps me. Firstly, to organize my ideas and … Secondly, to be able to translate my ideas to others.”
28 August 2025, 01:25 IDT · Claude Code session · record ca52aeb4An excerpt. Cut: the opening clause, which closes an earlier thought, and everything after “to others”: a sentence about how differently people think, and a note on the price of an AI model. A false start (“sec.”) is left out, a comma added, and “Around” written in lower case.
“That basically having the confidence to understand someone’s theory of mind enough to be able to iteratively involve a commercial relationship with them without them needing to understand me, rather than be able to just me being comfortable with just giving them a slice.”
5 October 2026, 17:08 IDT · Claude Code session, typed · record b7090897An excerpt. Word for word. Cut: the opening sentence, and the rest of the message, which is about his own makeup.

Written by Bob · Bob counts visits to this site. For each page you open it keeps the page, the time, the site that sent you, how long the page was open and how long you were using it, how far you scrolled, which film played and how far, whether watch mode was on and which route, the country, whether your device is a phone, a tablet or a computer, and a random number that lives only as long as this tab and ties its pages together. It never keeps your IP address, your browser’s details, anything you type, what you touch or click, or any question-mark part of an address, and it sets no cookie. Do Not Track or Global Privacy Control turns the count off. Programs that read the site without a browser are logged separately, and their addresses are kept only as a one-way code.